Friday, June 24, 2011

*Don't be so hard on yourself

Nobody came here to earth with hand book or a crystal ball telling us what we need to do in order to create total happiness in your life. Unfortunately for the most part we are born with amnesia, as to who and what we are and capable of doing, and the process of learning through experience can be very difficult, Especially when we were not taught about how this world really works. Mistakes or a better term....learning experiences need to happen in order to learn what would have been in the hand book, if we were ever given one.

Do not despair or feel the need to be hard on yourself for making the "mistakes" in your past, or even the ones you are currently making now. We will always have experiences that will be challenging, and we can always look within for the answer, but there will always be times when we could have made a better choice. Life is such, there will always be the opportunity to make better choices. 

When we consciously make better choices compared to our past choices and create better behavior because of the past experiences, then all is well. We are learning. We are evolving.

Our famous saying...When all else fails read the hand book...this can not apply here, therefor, we must learn through trial and error. This is not to say we are alone. There is endless help ready to assist you the moment you ask, but in the end, we are just here to learn and create. Everyone and I mean everyone here on earth has at least one area where they struggle in some way. If you believe you deserve being hard on yourself, then this would mean that every person on this planet should be hard on them selves too. Taking responsibility for yourself is key but not being so hard on yourself to the point of not loving and appreciating your journey.

Every person on this planet needs to find the self love within and truly start loving every aspect of themselves, and appreciate the aspects you wish to change. So set the intention to do so, then take baby steps and watch to see where you're guided or shown to do. What ever you do, put forth effort in your experience, and that way you will have no reason to be hard on yourself, because so long as we work hard, for the right things, things will fall into place.

Don't be hard on yourself when you make mistakes or keep repeating the same lesson over and over again, because life is a process and what we are doing as humans is no small task. I ask you to please, be gentle to yourself, love your self, learn from yourself, and show compassion for your self, and always work hard in your life for yourself.

You are the only you, so love you and share your best you with the world and worry not if you don't hit the mark on your first try, or second or even third try. Sometimes it takes dozens even hundreds of tries but stay in your heart and remember everyone is going through the same different things. 

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