Sunday, November 27, 2011

*A message to parents with special needs children

You are not alone. First and most importantly your children chose you as the their parent. They chose to come into this world with you being the one to raise them. This is because you have the strength to overcome these challenges, helping to guide your children through the issues they chose to come into this life and heal.

There are numerous behaviors and diagnoses parents are dealing with. Here are only a few that seem to really put your patience to the test because of particular behaviors expressed through the child on a regular basis.....A.D.H.D./attention deficit hyperactive disorder, aspergers, A.D.D./ attention deficit disorder, autism, O.C.D./ obsessive compulsive disorder, O.D.D./ oppositional defiance disorder, sensory disorders, autism and many others.

You have been chosen to be the one to help your child reach their fullest potential. You have been chosen to love this child unconditionally and raise them to the best of your ability and you have been chosen to do this because you are one of the few who can and are willing to try your best.

You must have within you that special something way down deep that gives you the patience, love, knowledge and ability to guide and support a child that has chosen these challenges to come here and learn to heal and overcome as many challenges as possible.

You, the parent are supported by Spirit on so many levels, so remember to pray for guidance and grace. You were chosen and you agreed to come here and learn from all your experiences. You have the ability to take on whatever comes your way. I have 5 children I'm raising and there are special needs I struggle to deal with daily, but guiding these children and all children to the best of our ability is truly all we can do.

Pull your strength from way down deep, know that our wise creator is always there for you, they are within you, you are them and they see your struggles but you must be clear when asking for assistance from spirit.  Don't ask for patience, know you already have it. They will always provide you with what you need in perfect time. Take notice and be grateful when spirit offers you grace, when Spirit sees your needs and provides for you.

Great jobs parents, you really are a wonderful loving soul to take on these challenges. Oh and please don't give a thought to other parents, neighbors, people, family or anyone that judge you. Just know they don't get it and maybe never will, because if they understood what it takes to raise any special needs child or children, they wouldn't be judging. Period.

Your children love you so much, although their behavior may sometimes say other wise. Know deep within they love you and need you. They chose you out of billions of parents because they need what only you have to offer. Thank you all for being you and you are all in my prayers. You are blessed !

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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

*Increased sensitivity to negativity, food, alcohol, chaos......?

Before you set out on your spiritual journey, your body may have been tolerant to many unhealthy outside sources. You may have even used some as a coping mechanism or a distraction to what really needed to be done or looked at in your life. 

But as you do the necessary work in order to heal and gain balance with in your life, and although you may be and feel stronger and healthier, you will probably become more sensitive to external ''things''.

Things such as certain foods, dairy, sugars, and preservatives, alcohol, household cleaners, chemicals, negativity, pessimism, sarcasm, noise, chaos, medications, etc. Those to list a few, but the one thing that will become most obvious is your distaste for dishonesty.

It seems the healthier and more balanced you become, this raising your vibration, it will quite often increase your sensitivity to outside sources, especially ones that are out of harmony, such as excess chaos or any type of negative influence, even chemicals you come into contact with or ingested through the hundreds that are put into almost everything we eat.

Our bodies , as our vibration rises, through learning how to open our hearts, make tolerating lower vibrations difficult. This includes anything that is harmful for the body. The shift we are experiencing will eventually bring us back to all things that are natural or at least free of harmful substances.

As for negative energies well, it's not like you won't be able to handle whatever situation that comes your way, it's more that you will become more aware of the energy around you and may find yourself making different choices to avoid as much negative energy as possible. This may include spending less time with those who are negative, or having to speak your truth in certain situations. You will find that spending time with like minded people very energizing and comforting, again choosing to spend more time where the energy vibration is similar to where yours is.

Things you physically ingest such as alcohol, drugs, sugars, preservatives, pesticides or the fluoride in the water may begin wreaking more havoc on your body as you raise your vibration. These low vibrating foods may start having stronger side effects than you are used too such as, tummy aches, headaches, hangovers, digestive issues and others. 

Our bodies begin to crave healthier, high vibrating foods, natural foods that nourish our bodies. When we choose unhealthy foods our bodies may become less tolerable and let you know, very clearly in less desirable ways, when you have ingested something your body does not want. It pays in more than one way to eat healthy foods that came straight from the earth,

You may find the more you dedicate yourself to the spiritual path, the more sensitive your whole being becomes, this is your body wanting to return to the peaceful, toxic free state it is meant to be. As your body, rises it's vibration and rids itself from toxic chemicals and negative energy, it also becomes more sensitive to the divine guidance that is always there for us to call on. You may find your psychic abilities begin to wake up after being dormant for so many years.

This is great, after all what better sign that you are on the right path !

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*There's no time like the present to step into your dream.

The present moment is the only moment that can truly make a difference in your life, which is why it is so important for us always to make the best of it. To make good choices in the present moment, creates future moments that you can enjoy through the good choices you make now.

So many people are waiting for 'the right time' but really when IS the right time ? When you have more money ? When you have more time, more experience ? When things are less ? hectic, or after you finish the other something you've been putting off ? When the kids are older ? When the economy is better ?
If your waiting for the right time to go for your dreams, it will never arrive in the way your expecting it.

If you have a dream you've always desired to bring into creation, there is no time like the present to do it. If you are being guided or pulled to do something then do it. Take the first steps and watch the magic unfold as the universe everything you need at the perfect time. Putting it off, only puts off attaining your dreams.

Life will always keep you 'too busy' or 'too preoccupied' to find the time to do the work, you feel needs to be done. That is until you decide enough is enough, take the bull by the horns and make your dream a reality. Things will always come up in life, there are always unexpected turns of events, what we must do, is keep focus and decide nothing can stop us from doing what we feel we are able to do and need to do. Be the freight train and push through everything.

Most of time when we ask ourselves what we are truly waiting for, the root answer will always come back as..... getting over fear. Maybe the fear is of failure, people not understanding or supporting your choice, taking a chance, finances, there are endless fears that surface when your staring change right in the face.

But it really comes down to..... How bad do you want it ? and What are you going to do about it ?? The universe is always one step ahead of us and everything you will need will be presented to you. Things can get tough but if you remain in your heart, stay determined and not worry about what others think, you will overcome whatever presents itself to you on your journey.

Face your fears and step into who you are and BE who you were meant to be,.....and really there is no time like the present, to be who you were meant to be. Be yourself !!

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