Sunday, November 27, 2011

*A message to parents with special needs children

You are not alone. First and most importantly your children chose you as the their parent. They chose to come into this world with you being the one to raise them. This is because you have the strength to overcome these challenges, helping to guide your children through the issues they chose to come into this life and heal.

There are numerous behaviors and diagnoses parents are dealing with. Here are only a few that seem to really put your patience to the test because of particular behaviors expressed through the child on a regular basis.....A.D.H.D./attention deficit hyperactive disorder, aspergers, A.D.D./ attention deficit disorder, autism, O.C.D./ obsessive compulsive disorder, O.D.D./ oppositional defiance disorder, sensory disorders, autism and many others.

You have been chosen to be the one to help your child reach their fullest potential. You have been chosen to love this child unconditionally and raise them to the best of your ability and you have been chosen to do this because you are one of the few who can and are willing to try your best.

You must have within you that special something way down deep that gives you the patience, love, knowledge and ability to guide and support a child that has chosen these challenges to come here and learn to heal and overcome as many challenges as possible.

You, the parent are supported by Spirit on so many levels, so remember to pray for guidance and grace. You were chosen and you agreed to come here and learn from all your experiences. You have the ability to take on whatever comes your way. I have 5 children I'm raising and there are special needs I struggle to deal with daily, but guiding these children and all children to the best of our ability is truly all we can do.

Pull your strength from way down deep, know that our wise creator is always there for you, they are within you, you are them and they see your struggles but you must be clear when asking for assistance from spirit.  Don't ask for patience, know you already have it. They will always provide you with what you need in perfect time. Take notice and be grateful when spirit offers you grace, when Spirit sees your needs and provides for you.

Great jobs parents, you really are a wonderful loving soul to take on these challenges. Oh and please don't give a thought to other parents, neighbors, people, family or anyone that judge you. Just know they don't get it and maybe never will, because if they understood what it takes to raise any special needs child or children, they wouldn't be judging. Period.

Your children love you so much, although their behavior may sometimes say other wise. Know deep within they love you and need you. They chose you out of billions of parents because they need what only you have to offer. Thank you all for being you and you are all in my prayers. You are blessed !

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1 comment:

  1. the last paragraph hit me the strongest. Sometimes our children's behaviour seems like they are out to drive us crazy, but deep down we know they love us, as we love them. Thank you for reminding some of us that. Sometimes that is the hardest part, when we think our child's behaviour is really what they feel.

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