Showing posts with label pushing through fear. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pushing through fear. Show all posts

Monday, January 27, 2014

#Don't worry about failing, worry about...not trying

What is failing but the need to try again. We have all had to do something more than once and on even more occasions had to do it over and over in order to become skilled with the task at hand. Failing is reality. Many of us failed at our first attempt ride a bike and the first time we wrote the alphabet was more than likely not the prettiest site to be seen, but we TRIED and after many attempts of "failing" we became skilled and became successful in reaching our goal.

If we didn't try for fear of failing Life would be safe. At least in a sense it would be safe because we really came here to experience, and BE who we were meant to be and many of us, whether we want to believe it or not really live by other people standards, by what they think other people will say or feel about them. Really this is not safe as people and societies standards are always changing and you will have to move from your comfort zone regardless.

We must stop chasing societies, our parents, grandparents, friends even our children's approval if we want to find real peace within  our lives. We must start carrying out our own dreams, feelings and callings. We need not care if we fail as it is part of growth and learning. So what if we fail, we just try again, only this time we are smarter as we will take what we have learned when we failed and adjust it accordingly in hopes of better results. The only worry you have is NOT trying, as what calls you will continue calling until you answer. It was our mission. Our mission to carry out who and what we came here to be and do. It was part of a bigger plan.

Usually what calls you, feels much bigger than what you think you are or can handle and then fear keeps us from reaching for what calls. Well it's time to reach and reach high. Failing is only another opportunity to get better remembering to give yourself no excuses. Know that it takes hard work, but when we follow our dreams it does not feel like work, it feels like a blessing as little miracles will come along when you least expect it to show you that you are on the right path, that things will be ok.

You came here to fail and get up and do it better and smarter next time. Practice, hard work, dedication and the LOVE for what you are trying is what will make your failures your greatest asset and in time your greatest success story.

BE YOU !!  FAIL, FALL, GET UP AND TRY AGAIN !! BUT IN THE END BE WHO YOU CAME HERE TO BE AND DO WHAT YOU CAME HERE TO DO AND EXPECT NO ONE TO UNDERSTAND !!. If it is in your heart than follow it BUT PLEASE DO REMAIN KIND TO THOSE AROUND YOU. If they don't understand and lots wont just limit communication or keep your ideas on the down low for a while, but commit to being you and trying your best no matter what !!! YOU CAN DO IT !!

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Tuesday, November 5, 2013

#This too shall pass !!!

What does this mean ? Everything is always in motion, therefore nothing remains the same. This should be a great relief for many as sometimes when we are stuck in the moment we feel there is no way out.

When something challenging arrives in our experience we tent to loose some perspective and things can really feel overwhelming. If we can remember these four words, perspective immediately broadens and there is more clarity to whichever emotion the experience brings.

This too shall pass is just a friendly reminder that everything in your past is exactly that....passed. Nothing has ever remained the same and thank goodness for that. There will always be experiences. Some will bring really joyful and comfortable experiences and some will definitely bring unfamiliar and uncomfortable experiences. Either way eventually those feelings will pass and something else will replace them.

We are taught on the spiritual path to a degree to live in the moment. That the here and now is the only moments in our lives that really matter. The only moments that really make a difference.

When really down and out, confused, sad, hurt, ashamed, feeling guilty or any other uncomfortable emotion, ask why ? What is it trying to show you ? What is it wanting you to see ? Where is it wanting you to make change ? We don't want these emotions to just pass. We want to learn from them first, as to move past those lessons so we can move on to other things. If they were to just pass, and we did not learn, then we will find ourselves in a similar experience down the road, as things will keep repeating themselves until we learn what it is we need to learn.

Whether we learn or not, your experience and the emotions associated with it will pass, but seeing as we have to be in that experience anyway, why not learn from it as to move forward and on to new and different experiences.

Reminding yourself that this too shall pass will bring a lighter perspective to your situation, therefore you can focus your attention on what it's trying to teaching you, rather than the stress you feel it is causing you. Everything will keep moving as energy does, it will pass and new will come.

So be grateful when life feels comfortable and understand when life feels uncomfortable it is lovingly trying to guide you but either way that too shall pass and you will feel better again. 

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