*Do you find some people can drain your energy ?

Have you noticed when spending time with particular people, whether it is in person, over the phone, on the computer or just time thinking about them, that you feel completely drained as though your energy has been literally sucked from you ? These people leave you feeling as though you have run a 10 mile race with only spending a few minutes with them, even if it is not physically.

You may not even realize they are taking or effecting your energy, until a short while after you've spent with them. You may feel tired, unmotivated, have a headache or an upset stomach, when just prior to your time with them, you were feeling fine, even exceptionally well.

Most of the time, these people who take another energy are unaware they are even doing this. Rarely do they consciously make the choice to call you up and take you, for all the energy they can. (Although that is exactly what narcissists and gas lighters so.) They, if you think about it these people are probably not the most positive people, having positive experiences so to be around them can causes your energy vibration to plummet just by giving them your head space while think about them.

When someone comes in contact with you, there is always an exchange of energy, but when ones energy is vibrating at significantly lower level than yours, you may find that they have inadvertently helped themselves to yours.

There are some measures you can take to protect yourself from someone taking your energy. Selecting certain crystals or gems that have qualities within them that help protect you by absorbing any negative energy that surrounds you. They can also place a protective energy shield around you, preventing you from absorbing anthers energy or them from taking yours.

You can also call on angels, guides, or whatever higher power you speak to, to place a protective energy shield around you. Simply visualize a white light surrounding you that will not allow any unhealthy transfer of energy to be passed between you and the other person.

Rarely is someone aware they are taking another's energy, but it does happen sometimes and you should be aware of this and when all else fails in protecting your energy from them taking it, a break from this individual may be necessary, or limiting your time spent with them or sometimes even permanently.

On the rare occasion you meet a true energy vampire or narcissus ( someone who intentionally steals, takes or drains your energy ) you will know soon enough. People who are aware they are effecting your energy are often charming in the beginning and eventually turn out to be narcissistic and cruel. These people are toxic and should be avoided whenever possible and protection should be called upon when having to deal with these people for any length of time. They can be anyone from your parent, your spouse, your neighbor to someone you work with, a friend or even a child.

Your energy is yours. Do not allow another to take it. Give it when you can and when you choose, but protect yourself from those who take it from you without your permission.

If your energy has been affected by someone say the following “ I am only feeling what is mine, right now “ This will help clear your energy and clear any energy that is not yours.

Other dealing with negativity articles by SPIRITUALITY IN YOU.........

How to protect yourself from negative people.
http://spiritualityinu.blogspot.ca/2014/01/how-to-protect-yourself-from-negative.html

How to deal with non believers and sleeping souls.
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*How to transmute your experiences.

In order to transmute your experiences, you must first accept them all as learning experiences, and find the lesson in which it was trying to show you. Then we must let it become a healthy part of who we are. We experience, integrate and then transmute the experience, with who we are.

When what feels like a negative experience presents itself to you, it can feel like poison, the fears, heavy emotions, memories, and physical symptoms, what it can conjure up or trigger may seem like poison to our body and can reek havoc on our mind, body and even spirit.

When we can see why and what the experience is trying to show us, if we are conscious of what it is that's really going on, or know that all things happen for a reason, if we can take what needs to be learned out of a situation, it becomes neutralizes and we can then begin to transmute the negative aspects into a learning experience quickly and this allows what was learned to become part of who we are.

For example if you have struggled throughout your life, just to make ends meet, then you learned how to adapt. You always found a way. You are here and you reading this, so now you have to own the skill of always making ends meet. Some may become bitter over time and even resent those who seem to be well off financially. They have not transmuted their experiences with money, lacking, jealousy, what ever it is that is hurting them deep down, in a healthy way. They are resentful that others are thriving instead of finding appreciation in the fact they have always had their needs met. When you can appreciate your experience, you have transmuted the negative feelings and energy around the experience and taken what is good or what could be learned or gained from the experience.

Those who struggle in life and still live their life with joy and embrace what is good, sharing their experiences about hardship with others who are struggling in the present, those who have been humbled by their lack of money...... now offering what they can to help others,... they have transmuted their experience in a healthy way.

It has become a HEALTHY aspect of they the are. They are not burdened with negative thoughts or emotions from past experiences. Not only are they free of any resentment, they now use their past experience to help others who are currently struggling with the same issues.

This is transmuting your experience !

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*Human law verses Universal law

Human laws were conjured up by government and those in power as a means of controlling the masses, under the discuses of keeping law and order. Religion and and school systems only amplified these human laws. We have been told these law are put into place for the best interest of everyone. Most human laws, serve government pockets and politics leaving many citizen with little justice and less money.

Universal law is law that everyone has access to and it resides on a more universal level.

These universal laws are in line with such sayings as ''do unto others as you would have them do unto you,'' or ''if you see someone in need and are able to help, then help,'' ''be honest and treat others kindly,'' 

Universal law, is sacred in the fact that it is law that was created to enhance our lives and it never creates intentional pain on another. It is law so morally perfect, if we all followed them, there would be no need for human law. Universal laws are simple in that they....never intentionally harm another and its expected to help who you can, including yourself, have morals, be trustworthy, etc. Any action can fall under one of these categories when you break them down, they usually either go against universal law, or they are universal law.

It would make life much more simple if everyone broke down their actions to these two opposites, and tried consciously to do right, but we are living with laws on top of more laws, on top of a money hungry government, that actually send police out with a monthly quota to ticket and hand out fines to citizens, in turn citizens put more of their hard earned money into the government money pot. This complicates things so much.

No worries though things are changing and changing quickly. There is already a major shift going on right now, that is moving the masses into living by universal law. Look at all the protests and standing up to the government happening all over the world.

Human laws are not working and never will. Universal law, is the law of love and it is here to stay. It will only grow as more stand up, to the limitations government and religion has put on us.

Universal law will create peace and harmony among everyone who chooses to live by them. Be kind and live from your heart. This is universal law and it is the only law that truly matters.

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#Perfection....what is it ?... my thoughts.

Perfection is living through unconditional love and living in a state of continual forgiveness. It is releasing yourself from your ego and opening your heart knowing you are a divine being and God/Creator is within you and you hold all of what our creator holds. Our creator is perfection and perfection is within us.

It is something we all strive for yet we already are. It is something we are told that we are not and have been conditioned through religion, the education system and government to forget that we are.

Perfection is living life and enjoying what it has to offer, being aware of what it is trying to teach you, show you or bring to your attention. The magnificent way it lovingly guides you in order to reach your chosen goals and full potential.

Perfection is seeing through the eyes of God at all times. It is knowing we are all one, we all come from the same source and what one feels, effects everyone.

Perfection is knowing that every soul need not ever be judged, for they are here to learn and seeing them through loving eyes, through compassion, through your heart will only help speed their evolution as well as yours, along with raising the entire populations energy vibration.

Impeccable, humble, honest, integrity, love, compassion... perfection encompasses these actions as well as many other words that describe love, peace and harmony among all beings.

When we see the world through our heart our actions will naturally fall under what can only be described as perfection. Our creator is perfection and we are an extension of that, which is perfect. As we begin to wake up and start the healing process, we begin to see the perfection that is within.

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#Don't take it personally.

Whatever someone is reflecting something negative or judgmental onto you, it is really an issue with themselves. They are acting, reacting, or behaving in a way they learned through their experiences. Whether someone taught them that behavior or they picked it up themselves, finding it worked a few times so they stuck with what works.

 Deep down they are in pain. From what ? There is a million possibilities. Regardless they will do unto others what they have learned worked in the past, in order to get what they need or think they deserve. Whether it is money, attention, power, control, objects or even love. When you find yourself confronted with one of the following scenarios or any scenario, ask yourself what is really going on, see the bigger picture.

-If some one tells you to shut up...what they might be saying is...stop telling me something about myself that might be true and I don't want to acknowledge.

-If someone steals something from you, even if its someone you love, they are not attacking you or your stuff....what they are doing is..... feeding this illusion they have of themselves that they are not capable and worthy enough to obtain things through their efforts. They are afraid of not having.... they usually take from those who are open hearted and somewhere in their soul have a knowing that you will forgive them or they are simply crying out for help.

-If someone cheats on you in a relationship, it is not necessarily because you were not enough.... they are really saying... I am insecure and need constant confirmation that I am worthy of some wanting me, even if only for a short period I need to have another give me their energy to supplement what I think I lack in myself.

-When someone gossips about you.... what there doing is.... taking the attention off themselves and their shortcomings by placing the attention on you, telling others anything about you that will hopefully keep the attention off them.

-If some one hurts you physically... what they are trying to tell everyone is..... I am a coward and feel so low about myself that  must strike out on those who I feel can not defend themselves. This is the only way I feel I can have any type of control in my life.

When you find yourself in an experience that effects you personally, watch for your lesson in it all (there will always be one), but remember who ever did ''this'' to YOU did not do it to YOU. You really have nothing to do with it, if you were there or not they would still do... what they do. When it's not being done to you, they are dong it to someone else. Do not allow yourself to give more energy than necessary to anything done to you.

Your best bet,,, and yes this is easier said than done but it is the truth.... is to learn your lesson out of the experience and then set healthy boundaries with these individuals and blessing those who put their ''stuff '' on you, understanding if they could do better they would do better.

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#Your life is waiting for you.

Where ever you are right now.... is the perfect place for you to be. If it were not, you would not be here. This does not mean you are meant to remain here, it means look around and within yourself and realize this place is showing you what is waiting for you and the steps necessary to get there. You know within what you truly desire and what ever surrounds you now is showing you and offering you opportunities to get to the life that is waiting for you.

This place your in right now, this frame of mind your in right now, the objects and people who surround you right now are all present to show you things about yourself, that you either need to embrace or you need to change and let go of.

What you desire is waiting for you to do the work necessary, in order to obtain what you desire. Your life is waiting for you. Waiting for you to take the step necessary to prepare for your coming life. This coming life is whatever you choose it to be and it will wait patiently for you to decide that you really want it, want it enough to do the hard work, healing, learning, forgiving, releasing or whatever it is you must do, to manage the life you want.

This does not happen over night. It takes time to manifest your biggest dreams and more importantly it takes hard work, dedication, patience and good intentions. Every one has a blissful life waiting for them, no matter where there are or where they want to be. We are continuously given opportunities and guided to what needs to be done but only those who choose do the work will make it to the life that is waiting for them.

It is there right now, all wrapped up in a big red bow, with a big card that says.... CONGRATULATIONS, all your hard work has paid off, you balanced all the necessary areas of your life, you held faith through the hard times when it seemed things were just to hard to keep trying, you kept putting one foot in front of the other, you persevered, you made it here to me, the life you have dreamed about for so long. I welcome you and I love you....oh and....... p.s. keep working hard because now that your here....there is more opportunities just waiting for you !!

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#Take your power back. You're not a victim.

Well, if you feel you are a victim..... it would be my most loving suggestion that you change that very thought immediately. Being or considering yourself a victim keeps your vibrational frequency lower than necessary. Releasing yourself from being a victim instantaneously raises your vibration. There are infinite ways you may see yourself as a victim and there is or was always a lesson for which you are to learn from. Feeling like a victim depletes your energy and gives away your power. This is not necessary.

Take control of your experience and stop letting it control you. Take back your power. Remember this thought...What ever you do to me I have the ability to get over it ! See all your experiences as learning experiences and knowledge gained. Use your experiences to help others who have been through similar experiences and are struggling in dealing with it.

Life is one big earth school with endless opportunities to learn and see things through your heart, to help those around us who are suffering. Heal from your experience. Honor your feelings by feeling them. If you feel like crying then cry but be consciously aware that you are releasing these feeling in order to heal from them.

If you are angry, then feel angry, just do not react to the anger. Only experience the anger as an emotion you are experiencing in that moment. It will pass and although it may take some time, if your intention is to heal from whatever experience that has kept you feeling like a victim, then guidance will be provided. It will provide signs or synchronicities to help your healing process but it is your job to notice and act upon it.

If you are unsure how to heal from a specific experience then ask for guidance, pray and be ready to receive your answer in any way it might come, then be sure to follow through even when the going gets tough.

When we loose our victim hood, we regain our power and when we regain our power, we have plenty to spare, so we are then able to help others heal from similar experiences and there is no greater feeling than sharing your loving guidance to another soul who is feeling alone in their experience.

It allows you to take your power back.

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