*Most important relationship ever, is between you and yourself.

If you love yourself because you know you try your best to be a good person, that you always try and help those who need it, because you see that all humans are equal...... then you have created the healthiest and most important relationship of your life.....the relationship with yourself. 

When you truly love yourself then you want only the best and most fulfilling experiences, people, energy and thoughts in your space, and this is so important in creating a healthy life. When you love yourself, you need not worry what others think or say about you and this gives you the freedom to be yourself and many people are yet to truly have this freedom in their life. 

The relationship you have with yourself determines what experiences you manifest within your life. If you feel good about who you are, what you do and the decisions you make, than you will vibrate at a level that will create experiences that make you feel better and better. If you feel guilt, anger, fear, resentment, shame, any of these emotions on a regular basis, than you will vibrate on a level that manifests more of those experiences.

You see the universe must send you what you think about and experiences in vibration with how you feel. If you generally feel good, more of your experiences will make you feel good, if you generally feel bad, more of your experiences will make you feel bad.

If your in a rut and feel negative about your life due to past decisions and mistakes you made in the past, then it is time to let it go, move forward and use the mistakes to propel you into a better person, who has learned from those mistakes. Truly there are no mistakes, only opportunities to learn and evolve choosing differently next time.

Love yourself no matter what your past holds. This life isn't about the past, it's about creating our future while enjoying the present. So create your future by being your own best friend, love yourself and be grateful for who you are and the past mistakes you made because in the end everything is just a lesson, an opportunity to grow. If you can learn from the lessons you are presented with in a loving gentle way, then you have already created a fantastic relationship with yourself. 

That is beautiful because the most important relationship ever, is between you and yourself !!

 Bless yourself !!!

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#A few words about un-involved fathers.

As sensitive as this topic remains for many, I feel it is important to shed new light or give a different perspective as to how to spend your energy and thoughts on this topic. Let me prepare those not fully ready to accept this concept, that they may feel great resistance to this perspective but I ask you keep an open mind.

If you or a loved one has children that are experiencing life without the presence of their father or have a father in their life that is not conscious of the spiritual light in them and set examples of how one should not behave, you may want to read this, as there is a good chance you are contributing to the negative energy collective surrounding men and their roles as fathers.

I speak of this topic experiencing it within my own reality, so I do not speak of it lightly or without first hand knowledge of the feelings it can bring to the surface. My goal here is to create healing on a universal level that not only send these fathers the love that they need and yes, deserve, but to also help find healing for those affected by their choices.

If as many people as possible would send these men love, as much or as little as you can produce, they would be effected in a positive way. I'm not saying they are right in their negative or selfish choices, or people do not suffer for their shortcomings but is it not the goal of the universe to love and help heal those who need it ? This excludes no one.

You do not have to be in their presence in order to send them love and healing, you can do this through your thoughts, through you hopes and dreams for humanity. If you are a single mother than you are strong enough for the job. Believe it or not you chose this as did your children. For whatever reason, myself included we chose this job the way it is, and we are more than capable of raising the children we chose to birth. We can also help ourselves in the way of finding forgiveness in some form letting go of the anger being held within..

Either way forgiving and finding peace on the subject of uninvolved fathers will benefit them, you, your children and humanity as a whole. Finding your spiritual path IS all about finding forgiveness and love for all. You may not like what they do but it is to your benefit to find this peace.

These fathers believe it or not are suffering. They carry immense heavy energy when an aspect of their life, especially this big, is unbalanced. You can guarantee they are in need of some heavy duty healing. So I say be the stronger spiritual being and send them what you can in positive energy. You can at least thank them for your opportunity to see how strong and capable you truly are.

I write this with all love and respect for I know how challenging it can be when our children's fathers are not around or set a negative example but we can help the evolution of all humanity if we can find and send peace and love out to these men and the universe rather than anger, resentment. Holding the negative serves no good and is harmful to yourself. So believe in yourself and love yourself and accept your challenges with love and forgiveness.

 You deserve it !! May peace be with you.

Of course this goes out to all parents who are raising children as a single parent. 

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#Forgiving is empowering !!

Forgiveness creates a situation where you need not ever play the ''victim'' role again. Forgiveness is the ability to fully understand there a larger things at work. It allows you to see that others weaknesses are only learning experiences for you as well as opportunities for you own personal growth. As you begin to open your heart you will find healthier ways of responding to others behaviors, evolving into someone who responds out of love, through understanding, compassion and knowing everything happens for a reason.

You are not a victim. You are you going through a learning experience. An experience that is offering you lessons on how to lovingly respond to others while at the same time learning to overcome obstacles and challenges while keeping your integrity in check. As you learn from your experiences you can than better help others with their issues and challenges.

Holding yourself in the victim role creates more experiences where you will continue being a victim. That is until you begin to realize you are not the victim and understand there are bigger things at work. Find the lesson you are being shown and learn from it quickly and lovingly.

The sooner you pull yourself out of the victim frame of mind the sooner you will change your perspective on your experiences and see them for what they are. Learning experiences that will bring you to a deeper level of understanding about who and what wonderful and powerful beings we are. Do not remain being a victim of anyone or anything. You are not a victim of your childhood or upbringing, not your e, or your job, not even bad luck. You are not a victim. You are a powerful human being that is capable of overcoming any and all circumstances.

With all your strength say to yourself and BELIEVE that you are not and never will again be a victim. You are empowered with all that is necessary to see yourself through whatever experiences come your way.

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