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Monday, September 21, 2015

Tantra for couples - How to build a healthy foundation

There are a number of really good reasons to introduce tantra to yourself and your sexual relationship. Tantra is way to connect with yourself and your partner on a much deeper level therefor the benefits to this is everything from the building of trust in your relationships to allowing yourself to be vulnerable allowing new levels of intimacy that can create a oneness between you and your partner or even with yourself as you discover new depths of your sexuality. Here are a few guide lines in setting up the right partner and the basics that would keep things moving in a healthy, trusting direction creating fun and joy through your journey of tantra.

It has to be the right partner. You want to feel a bond or connection between yourself and your partner. A level of respect and trust is needed to spark that bond you eventually want to create. If there is charisma upon meeting then all the better but if not keep the communication and practices moving at a pace that both partners are comfortable with and once trust starts to mound, it is amazing how our feelings and emotions can alter from when we first met or started. You never know it may end up being the one you always dreamed of. If all else fails and you just don't feel a connection, that is totally ok !! Just be completely honest with your partner and keep your reasons impersonal. Be ok with openly communicating your feelings. This would have built and expected through the first couple meetings when you discussed what each wanted to experience. Remember you are not jumping into bed with your partner right away, this will come naturally as you progress your practices.

You have to build a solid foundation of trust. This takes time and a great deal patience during the beginning stages with your partner. For many, even most people, talking about ones most personal thoughts and feeling and expressing what their desires and fantasies are, communicating what feels good and why, is very intimating and scary as a lot of us have been trained to do the opposite. Trust will come between you and your partner as you learn to lovingly give and lovingly receive information form each other. This should come naturally allowing a natural progression in your tantric experience.

You have to prepare yourself to be vulnerable. This is huge for some, even the thought of it can make a lot of people want to run for hills but there is no rush or rules on how fast you move. The whole basis of this practice is to build a trust. When there is trust.... there is more of a willingness to allow yourself to be vulnerable and speak openly and honestly. Most likely through proper practice, you will want or crave to allow yourself to be open with your partner . There is deep connection within the partnership and as you build that, you build this amazing relationship with yourself in allowing yourself to explore and give yourself permission to feel good and express your deepest thoughts and desires, knowing you are safe and loved by your partner.

No need to rush your experiences. You need to go at a space that is most comfortable for the partner that is more apprehensive or nervous about the idea of tantric practices. The reason for this is because if one moves to quickly and the proper foundation of trust has yet to be built, then the more nervous partner will not BE fully in the present and may resent the other partner that is wanting to move faster as they are more comfortable with the practiced involved with tantra.Tantra is something that is not rushed and based on building that trust between partners. There needs to be open communication from both partners on what they are comfortable with.

Talk about EVERYTHING with your partner. Tough one for many yes, but this is a practice about being vulnerable and opening up yourself to being fully present and experiencing oneness.... so expressing what feels good, what you liked, how you are feeling and knowing it will be received in love and be fully accepted by the partner receiving what you are sharing. Remember to receive what your partner expresses to you in the most loving and embracing way. Feel gratitude and honored that they felt safe and loved in sharing information that would make them very vulnerable at the time.

Tantra is all about being you and being present. Have fun with your practices and enjoy the pleasures and new heights it can bring you in many areas of your life. We are all one and tantra can connect you and your partner on levels you never thought possible. Take your time and go with what comes naturally and always communicate if you are not comfortable and when you enjoy or get pleasure out of what your partner is offering.

Be safe and Be love !!

Friday, April 25, 2014

#Feeling overwhelmed by a loved ones suffering ?

Sharing in an others person's experience can be anything from complete joy to utter devastation !! How you handle or involve yourself is where it can become tricky as there is a fine line between sharing in the experience and FEELING the experience as your own. Feeling someone's experience sounds great but as many empaths or clairsentients (people who can literally feel what some one else is feeling) would put it,..... It Could Be A Nightmare !!!!

When a friend or family member is going through tough times or even down right terrible times, it is normal to feel sadness for them, to cry with them, be angry for them, even sometimes act on their behalf, BUT many people can be sucked into the experience themselves. 

Empaths find it hard not to. They automatically feel emotion as if it were their own whether they want to or not. There is often a line many can cross out of love and genuine concern, that prevents us or blurs our ability to decipher what we are feeling and if it is even ours that we are feeling.

If we find ourselves overwhelmed, completely drained, emotionally heavy, extended anxiety, prolonged sadness or anything out of the ordinary, there could be a couple things going on. First you may be an empath or someone who can feel what others feel literally as if it were your own or the person you are upset for could be an energy vampire or someone who feeds off the emotions of others, or it could be an accumulation of stagnant energy you have been picking up in your daily life or it could be a combination of all. All of which have some solutions !!

An empath, sensitive, or clairsentient can learn to protect themselves when in the presents of the challenging emotions of friends and family. Surrounding yourself in the white light of the Holy Spirit or asking your Angels to protect you form such energies is extremely productive. You can also ask to be cleared of all energy you think you may have picked up. Saying "I only want to feel what's mine, right NOW" instantly clears others emotions from you. You can monitor and choose where and who you want to share energy with. Limit your time with negative people. Surround yourself with people that usually feel good and have a positive attitude.

If you find certain people always feeling bad, grumpy, often complaining, being pessimistic or always having a lot of drama going on and it's usually negative, sad, aggressive drama, you can choose to limit your time spent with them. 

Energy vampires feed and get their energy from the negative energy and constant attention from others. We all go through hard times but some thrive in it and the more energy and time they can get from others the better they feel. You can ask for protection before meeting or speaking with them and clear yourself after separating.

Helping others just comes naturally to some and it can be very draining so learning how to be in the presence of these energies at least gives you some support in managing how they leave you feeling. Bless you for helping those who need it most but if you get overwhelmed in the process, you can now help yourself so you can continue helping others in healthier way !!

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#When the student is ready, the teacher will appear !!

Although we humans tend to be somewhat impatient and want what we want when we want it, the benefits of knowing too much too soon may not be what there all cut out to be. This age old saying is true "when the student is ready, the teacher will appear''. Any sooner would not be healthy or well received by us. There is good reason to us not knowing too much too soon.

Learning to walk a more spiritual path takes time and a lot of faith, patience and hard work. There is much to learn and many of us come to learn to appreciate the pace at which we are given new information. As we change many of our beliefs and perspectives, life can seem overwhelming and chaotic. Pacing the amount of change to what we can handle emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually is best left to the universe, spirit, God or what ever you call you higher power. They are well aware of what is best for us, when it is best and how much.

When we are ready for more understanding or ready to reach for the next level or plateau in our evolution, a teacher will appear. Could be anyone from a friend of a friend, a stranger on the bus to the new class mate you just met. Teachers will only appear when we are ready, not when WE think we are ready. Look back to a time when things in your life seems very chaotic, stressful or out of balance, could you imagine being given a totally new perspective on 10 different areas in your life all at once ?? It would drive any sane person to the brink of collapse.

A new perspective on life feels good when we have a good handle on our present situation and we can want more and more but we need to remember that once we learn something we need time to develop the skill to use it in our daily lives. 

So we learn, then the universe gives us opportunities to try out our new skills or in other words we learn a skill intellectually and then we are presented with an experience in our life to put our skill to the test physically and this can seem overwhelming at times. In order to take on more new information we need to have a good foundation as to what we have just learned previous. A good foundation is truly being ready for what is next and although we may think we know what is best for us, believe me there are countless times I have been ever so grateful for the delayed timing of that next teacher appearing, to bring to what was next.

When us students of life are ready..... our teachers will appear to bring us to the next step... any sooner could create frustration and hardship that would only delay our progress !!! Give yourself the time you deserve to learn and practice your skills having faith that whatever you need will be brought to you perfect timing !!

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Monday, April 8, 2013

We love you soul brothers.

Why can't they see or feel that it is pure
from heart, from soul, from a place of love ?
A love that is love and not of ego.
Why cant they see it is not material or physical ?
That it is spiritual and emotional, from the source.
Too many experiences, too few teaching.
So frustrated with the lack of understanding.
I do not wish to be misunderstood when my love is given !
It is pure love not in love love, it is soul love.
For if you breath, you are my brother or sister.
We are all one and it is this one love I give.
Do not mistaken it for listening to your ego.
I am not better than or less than I am equal.
As is my love, Still learning I am.
but practicing all the same.
My heart is sad for my brothers
Where their heart lye in ego and fear.
To not accept unconditional love.
To see their earth sisters love as attachment.
soo sad soooo damn sad.
Wake up. Wake up and accept unconditional love.
From source, do not accept fear.
My heart goes out to all my soul family,
but my brothers need more, too many have been taught
wrong and need to know love again.
They need to know what love is.
That it comes from inside, within.
A place where few are strong enough to look.
But more are looking.
LOOK now is the time. So much of it
saddens me to see pain in my brothers.
They need Love.The compassion
to be told it is ok.
It is ok to receive love and give love,
to cry tears of joy and sadness.
Why this connection ? I keep searching
to understand but need more understanding.
I need clarity as to where to help in their suffering.
I love them, them all. All, wake up !
Wake up all my brothers and sisters
It is ok now, to remember who and what we are.
Wake up and wake up others.
Love one another , help one another.
We are all from the same source of love and creation.
My heart cries out to stop and remember to love all.
Although at times we must walk alone,
we are NEVER alone, for we are all ONE !

Sunday, June 24, 2012

*Most important relationship ever, is between you and yourself.

If you love yourself because you know you try your best to be a good person, that you always try and help those who need it, because you see that all humans are equal...... then you have created the healthiest and most important relationship of your life.....the relationship with yourself. 

When you truly love yourself then you want only the best and most fulfilling experiences, people, energy and thoughts in your space, and this is so important in creating a healthy life. When you love yourself, you need not worry what others think or say about you and this gives you the freedom to be yourself and many people are yet to truly have this freedom in their life. 

The relationship you have with yourself determines what experiences you manifest within your life. If you feel good about who you are, what you do and the decisions you make, than you will vibrate at a level that will create experiences that make you feel better and better. If you feel guilt, anger, fear, resentment, shame, any of these emotions on a regular basis, than you will vibrate on a level that manifests more of those experiences.

You see the universe must send you what you think about and experiences in vibration with how you feel. If you generally feel good, more of your experiences will make you feel good, if you generally feel bad, more of your experiences will make you feel bad.

If your in a rut and feel negative about your life due to past decisions and mistakes you made in the past, then it is time to let it go, move forward and use the mistakes to propel you into a better person, who has learned from those mistakes. Truly there are no mistakes, only opportunities to learn and evolve choosing differently next time.

Love yourself no matter what your past holds. This life isn't about the past, it's about creating our future while enjoying the present. So create your future by being your own best friend, love yourself and be grateful for who you are and the past mistakes you made because in the end everything is just a lesson, an opportunity to grow. If you can learn from the lessons you are presented with in a loving gentle way, then you have already created a fantastic relationship with yourself. 

That is beautiful because the most important relationship ever, is between you and yourself !!

 Bless yourself !!!

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Friday, June 22, 2012

#We are all one, no one is a stranger !

There are no strangers to you here on earth, only friends in which you have not had the opportunity to meet yet, in this life. We are all brothers and sisters, we are created from the same Divine creative source. We are all on this life journey together, struggling to find the reasons for the way things are, trying to evolve ourselves into happier healthier beings.

We need not to see our brothers and sisters as stranger because this is not the truth of who they are. Any one we meet along our journey is important to who we are. Everything happens for a reason, so any stranger you meet, is no stranger. They are someone you agreed to have an experience with before you came into this life. You knew them before coming here and had a loving agreement to meet and have an experience, no matter if it feels like a positive one or negative one.

When we treat others as strangers, we treat them less than they deserve. When we treat others as long lost friends we haven't seen in ages, we embrace them with the love and kindness everyone deserves. When we see others as friends we see the relevance of meeting them and cherish all experiences with them.

Sometimes we can feel this without understanding what we are feeling. Have you ever met any one and instantly had a connection with them, like you have met before or know you are to connect with them, not knowing why ? This is your unconscious recognizing a soul friend even before your personality has a chance to disregard the meeting as unimportant. This is your soul knowing this is no stranger but is someone who you agreed to share an experience with while in this life.

Reverence is a true unconditional love of all things, people, and experiences and when we see no strangers we are less likely to treat them as such, We are all one, lets treat each other as such.
Bless you and every one you meet on your journey, please !!

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Monday, June 18, 2012

*Reverence.....The ability to see beauty in all.

Reverence is feeling.... an unconditional love for all life. People, plants, animals, water, food, air, wind, earth, metals, fire, Spirit, experiences, emotions and everything in between; these are all part of life and there're all a are part of us. When we hold reverence or love and appreciation for them in our hearts, we hold that same reverence for ourselves. How you ask ? Well when we are all connected, when everything is created from the same energy, what we put out there affects everyone and everything, including you, as you are part of the whole.

When we understand that we are all one, that we all come from the same universal creative energy, and that we hold all parts of sacred life within us, it is good motivation to keep feelings of reverence and appreciation forefront because in doing so your reverence touches all creation. 

When we understand that we are all connected and what any of life's creations are feeling or how they are being affected, we understand we are equally effected. When we love life and everything in it equally, then we begin to understand the true meaning of reverence for life.

Respect, appreciation, love and a devotion to treat all things equal is what we are beginning to understand as the truth and the way it should be. We are not separate from anything or anyone and once this is realized, reverence comes easier. Knowing what you put out there in thoughts, actions, or feelings is felt by everything, gives you reason to be conscious of what kind of thoughts and energy you are putting out there.

Reverence is looking at the big old tree you drive by everyday and thanking it for just being, loving it for providing, air, shade and beauty for all to see. Reverence is feeling appreciation in your heart for the stranger who said hello to you this morning, brightening you day even just a little. Reverence is easy when you are holding your new born child and grateful for their presence. Reverence can be felt on all levels about all experiences. Reverence is seeing homeless drug addict having a meltdown on the street corner and feeling nothing but love for this individual and knowing they have great value and lessons to teach us all.

Everything in your reality is serving a higher purpose and when you feel the reverence, the universe has for you, the reasons for your experiences in life, seem a little clearer and easier to navigate. When you have reason for your experiences, especially the challenging ones....reverence is easier given by you, as you can see how much love this universe has for you and you know all your experiences are to guide you, help you, make you stronger, teach you and evolve you into your full potential. 

How could we not revere (love) that ?

Love yourself, Love life and everything life has to offer.

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Sunday, June 17, 2012

#Live from your heart chakra !!

Living from your heart chakra is easy when holding a new born baby. It's easy when we first fall in love, or are taking a walk in the mountains or somewhere out in mother nature. Living from your heart is when we help a fellow brother or sister, when we had no obligation to do so. During peaceful, joyful or grateful moments in our life, we can live, see and give freely from our hearts.

The real tests are when we are confronted with situations that trigger our patients, self control and ability to speak the truth while keeping your integrity in tact. Situations or experiences that cause stress, fear, guilt or any other emotion that has a lower vibration cause us to react rather than remain in our hearts and see all situations as an opportunity to do better, love unconditionally, forgive and help all those who need it, any way we can.

If someone steals your car, crashes it, leaves the scene of the accident and gets caught a week later..... how likely are you to remain in your heart when your thoughts turn to this individual ? How much love and compassion are you going to have for them after the endless phone calls to the insurance company, repair shop, car rental shop, police investigators, the time you had to take off work, the extra paper work, paying the deductible on your insurance for the repairs needed done to your car, and any other inconveniences it caused you in that week.

Are you able to remain fully in your heart ? Are you able to see this individual as lovingly as you do a good friend ? Are you able to remember everything happens for a reason and that this person is on a learning journey as well and if they were in a healthy balanced state, they would not have done this ? Seeing life through your heart is a wonderful place to be, but it can be a huge challenge in challenging situations.

All you can do is promise yourself to always do your best when dealing with others and to see your experience through your heart, to ask what it is you could learn from it and how you could respond in order to treat your fellow brothers and sisters with respect no matter their actions or behavior.

Living from your heart is beneficial to all but most beneficial to you !!

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Thursday, December 22, 2011

#Mother Earth needs us now more than ever !!

Our dear Mother Earth is working harder than ever. She is trying to heal what we have done and are currently doing to her, while still trying to lovingly support and care for our every need. Her preparation for ascension and earth natural reoccurring cycles is explanation for her upheaval through the powerful storms, earthquakes and weather anomalies. She is releasing and healing her trauma and pain as so many human are. She is transmuting what we have done to her through pollution, mass tree cutting, negative energy, chemicals, water contamination, oil mining and the endless other atrocities she has suffered.

Mother Earth lovingly forgives us for what we have done to her and continues to offer her loving support to us. It is time for us to do the same for her. It is our turn to return the favor of thinking not only about ourselves but to remember nothing would be possible without her and what she offers us in our daily lives. We must, if only be mindful of the shelter she provides, the food she loving grows in perfection, the trees, water, rain and wind, the herbs she produces as our medicine, the perfect harmony that nature thrives in. She provides everything we need in loving order.

Help her on her journey of healing. Stop wasting food and grow your own when possible, speak out about governments polluting water with raw sewage, fluoride and other harmful substances, recycle or upcycle everything you can and most importantly send her the loving thoughts and energy she so desperately needs and deserves. Without her willingness to persevere everything we have done to her and still willingly provide every basic essential we need, we would be no longer. Mother Earth is a living breathing feeling soul. She feels pain, yet still gives her all every day to see us through what we need to accomplish.

It is our turn to return our love to her. She will feel it, that I promise. She heals more every time one of us heals and turns to a more sustainable way of living and in this whole healing process her and all the souls that inhibit her will feel their energy vibration raise along with hers.

Please whenever you can send your Mother Earth some loving thoughts. See her in perfect health and perfect order. Thank her for all she provides. Air, water, fire, wind, rain, soil, trees, plants, medicine, animals and shelter. There are endless things she provides us that we can be thankful for. Every thought you send to her is felt by her, so keep them loving and grateful.

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Tuesday, July 19, 2011

*Ten of the biggest lies your being told.

We hear little fibs, half truths, even whopping lies throughout our days, but here are TEN of the biggest lies we have ever been told, by the most influential people in our lives.

We are less than perfect

We do not hold psychic abilities or there is no such things as psychic abilities or its the devils work

The government would not steal our money, in the trillions, for their own PLEASURE

The bible is the whole truth

Aliens and UFO 's do not exist

If you sin you will go to hell

God will judge you

You must attend church in order to reach God

You can not have everything you ever dreamed of

Love does not cure EVERYTHING

LIES, lies, LIES, lies.....Here is the TRUTH....We are perfect and we ALL hold psychic abilities, healing abilities and endless other abilities. The government not only steals our money, but we are nothing but slaves to them, and that is their intention. The bible is only a fraction of the truth, only a snapshot in time, with many untruths in it. Not only do aliens and UFO 's exist but they are a huge part of the real story. There is no hell, and God does not judged anyone or thing anywhere in the entire universe, You are your only judge ! You can reach God anywhere, anytime, any way you choose, church is not a necessity. You absolutely can achieve everything you dream of and more and it all begins with your thoughts.....and MOST importantly love heals, mends, fixes, and cures EVERYTHING. 
LOVE IS EVERYTHING.

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