Showing posts with label negative people. Show all posts
Showing posts with label negative people. Show all posts

Saturday, October 25, 2014

#The divide between the negative and positive is widening

Although many of you have felt, sensed, or know there is a major shift taking place, many people are unsure as to what is happening, what is being felt and how to deal with it. 

There is contrast which is quickly becoming more defined and definitely felt on a much deeper level than ever before. There is little room for negativity in ones life right now. Every thought, feeling, worry and person in your life which is emanating negative energy is draining and can be detrimental to bringing you what it is your are seeking.

Those who are generally negative or pessimistic are becoming more difficult to tolerate. Those who are generally positive are feeling the pull and need to really put effort forth in order to stay in their healthy energy range. Being around those who are not at all positive are becoming ever more poisoning to the light hearted.

On the other hand, even the negative are feeling challenged in a new way. You see what we think and feel and surround ourselves with are what we become and what we create. The need to remain in a positive mind set has never been more needed and the choice not to, has never had such dramatic results as they do now..

We create our lives and those who are aware of this, know the gap between positive and negative is widening and the pace is picking up. The positive can no longer tolerate the negative. Even one's negative thoughts are manifesting negative experiences more quickly and can be felt more intense than ever before.

We MUST remain in our hearts and emanate love, compassion, positive thoughts and feelings if we ever really want to create exactly what we want in life.

Those around us are only reflections of us and our thoughts are only reflections of what we are creating, our feelings are only reflections of what we are going to bring more of.

Even the negative are finding the positive challenging to be around, they cannot stand the optimism, the positive out looks and kindness they can't find within themselves. They don't want to hear solutions as they are not ready to accept responsibility as to why they are, the way they are, and are even less interested in putting the needed effort forward to make changes in their lives.

The divide is widening and everyone can feel it, even if they can't put it into words. We have to create what we want by being the change we want to see. We have to mind our thoughts, our feelings, who and what we bring into our space. We have to choose to surround ourselves with positive people, places, things, thoughts and feelings if we want to bring about experiences that reflect just that.

Negativity just doesn't work any more, negativity's best use now is to feel it and know we want different. Negativity is a great tool to gauge where you are in the balance. If you feel less than positive than change what needs to be changed. whether it be your thoughts, how you feel, your daily routine or who you are surrounding yourself with.

It's not easy but it is worth it. If it were easy everyone would be doing it but only those who are truly done with unnecessary negativity know that the more space you put between the negative and the positive, the more your going to experience exactly whatever side your on. Which do you choose ??

Choose wisely !!

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Tuesday, January 28, 2014

#How to protect yourself from Negative people.

We have all experienced those who drain us, leave us feeling tired, irritable or down right miserable. You have the ability to protect yourself from such people and it can be a simple as uttering a few words to more detailed actions such as affirmations, the use of crystals/gemstone, or even cleansing/smudging using herbs. For some, especially those who have the gift of empathy or clairsentience (the ability to feel what another is feeling, whether in direct contact or not) protection techniques are essential.

Prevention is always better than cleaning up the aftermath, so if you know you are heading into a challenging situation, or going to be in the company of negative or pessimistic personalities then prevention is essential.       

Two simple sentences that work immediately are...

1. "Surround me with the white light of the Holy Spirit".....this creates an instant bubble of protection

2. If you are in the middle of a negative situation or just left and feel unclear, foggy, irritated, or drained you can say "I only want to feel what is mine right now !!" Mean what you say and trust that it is done !

You will feel an immediate shift in your energy. You should feel lighter or clearer.

Carrying crystals and gemstones are great for this too and there is an endless section to choose from. You can just carry the stone with you or you can can wear it in jewelry. The idea is the crystal will absorb or clear or reflect the negative energy as to protect it from reaching you and causing you any turbulence. There are many crystals that help in this department including hematite, jasper, smoky quartz, onyx, obsidian, and apache tear to name a few.

Another option is cleansing/smudging. This works well to prevent but is the best solution if a negative encounter has already taken place. Lighting white sage, cedar, frankincense or other clearing herbs will clear you of any residual negative or heavy unwanted energy. The smoke from these and other herbs or resins will leave you feeling much lighter.

Always remember in a pinch and for a quick reliable protective field just ask !! There is no magic words, just ask for instant protection from all negativity and it will be done. If you have already picked up some negativity then state in a loving but commanding way you wish to only feel what is yours....right now !!!

It's easy to be drained by another but when you now know some of the tools you can use, you can easily protect yourself too !!

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Other dealing with negativity articles by us.....

http://spiritualityinu.blogspot.ca/2011/08/do-you-find-some-people-can-drain-your.html
http://spiritualityinu.blogspot.ca/2011/03/dealing-with-non-believers-and-sleeping.html