Thursday, May 26, 2011

*ADD, ADHD, ODD, OCD, the spiritual side.

Is it possible that these children, even adults are unconsciously aware of something that people without this diagnosis is not aware of ? Could they have a deeper understanding of the way life is suppose to be without even being aware they have this knowledge ? Could it be their consciousness is trying to balance what everyone is telling them, with what their unconscious already knows ?

 Is it possible that their soul or inner knowing, is in system overload or feel completely out of place because the knowledge that is lying dormant within them is far deeper than the majority of others, including school authorities, parents, government, law enforcement, and anybody and anything that represses their true being and knowing, that they are yet to even understand themselves ?

The major problem lies with the fact that we have been programmed or conformed to behave a certain way, therefor those who act out of the set ways we have deemed abnormal, when really what we consider normal is very far from the truth, and somewhere within these kids they know this, and because they do not understand this or why they feel so much anxiety or energy about the ways of this world right now, they know no other way then to rebel against authority in unproductive ways or try to control or make their life as perfect as they can or find disruptive outlets to disperse locked up energy and anxieties.

These children are usually placed on medicine that dulls their true essence. Because the adults cannot understand what these children are experiencing, the children are numbed from experiencing who they are. I can say this with personal experience, as one of my own children was placed on meds. for less than a year, for two of the previously mentioned diagnosis, and another one of my children they tried relentlessly to have me medicate them.

After subjecting meds to my child for almost a year, not liking one minute of it, but not knowing any other way, the first time this child came to me at the age of 6 and told me he no longer wanted to take his medicine, I made every effort to make this a reality. Being firm with the school, yet understanding their position, made the transition and extra support easier for everyone. But in all truth nothing was easy in dealing with the school system.

Life is not easy with children who have the symptoms of these labels, but they were sent to you for a reason, because you have the ability to provide them what they need, a lot of patience, love and understanding. These children, whether noticeable or not are very sensitive children and need the extra support, but in the future, these children will more than likely be the ones, to guide us into the coming future where there will be no room for anything but love and acceptance. They ARE the movers and shakers in this world. They are the stander uppers, the rebels, the ones who will never conform to societies current ways of being. 

These children were born knowing that this world is not the loving world it should be, and find it very hard to fit in. Help them lower their anxieties by learning more about what is to come in the following years, read up on ascension and the process we are all undertaking to become the loving beings we were meant to be. 

These children are already half aware, and need the adults in their life to help them understand fully, so they no longer feel different or labeled. Parents, please know we were programmed to think that meds. are the best way to treat these diagnosis, but deep down it probably doesn't feel right.

It is time to take the majority of our children off these mind numbing drugs, and let them be who they were meant to be. It is not the children who need the help it is humanity who needs to wake up !! 

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11 comments:

  1. This post really hits home. I do have family who are under the spell of "Do all ~ Helping Drugs" I do not agree with their diagnosis. God help them please.

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  2. i am an adult adhd person since childhood and this is right on...

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  3. This is wonderful I have a teenager with ADHD and I refuse to give him meds he is very smart and he sometimes tells me stuff about the government and a lot stuff . The I don't understand in the beginning but it makes sense to me went time pass by. ..

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  4. I am a lifelong ADHD patient. I have taken 80 mg. RITALIN daily for 40 years. RITALIN AND ADHD ARe the twin engines that drive my soul and deep creativity. Parents who defy logic and pander to fear about "drugs" for their small ADHD victims, do not understand this class of drugs nor the condition itself. I am an author and have written extensively about my ADHD, Ritalin use but never abuse, and the mental agony of this chronic nervous condition.

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    1. Kudos. Seems obvious a lot of people don't understand ADHD meds. Perhaps it is helpful for some, but not others. Let them make their own choice. I'm about to...

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    2. 51 yo..... Wish I knew sooner. No wonder I haven't met my potential. Glad my daughter knows now though she just found out at age 21.

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  5. Please respond to my post at haydayf@gmail.com, or tel: 1-647-967-8439

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  6. Hello,

    My sister is an OCD, ADD, ADHD, anxiety specialist, in Calgary. She says, "Whatever works, do it," and she encourages various approaches. Drugs being one. Meditation being another. Plus other approaches. She's currently creating a web site to educate & help people.

    I, personally, am against drugs. I also have seen how meds have helped people I know. I, personally, would always approach everything spiritually.

    Keep an open mind. Don't rule anything out on either side of the equation; drugs may be helpful to get you through, 'a rough patch'.

    Pray and ask God for healing (out loud and emphatically explain to him how it is affecting you/your loved one). Speak with him as you would a friend standing in your room.

    Find peace. Find books.


    HERE ARE SOME TECHNIQUES & RESOURCES
    MY SISTER RECOMMENDS:

    1. Driven to Distraction, book + other books by the same author
    2. Saying the words, "Stay with me. Stay with me." (To keep the attention of your loved one.)
    3. She recommends to only give one command at a time, because it's all they hear or can remember.

    My sister says that people really like the books:
    1. SMART BUT SCATTERED
    2. BUZZED: A YEAR PAYING ATTENTION

    AUTHOR: Edward M. Hallowell:
    3. Driven to Distraction: Audio / Book
    4. Answers to Distraction: Audio / Book
    5. Married to Distraction: Audio / Book

    6. Worry
    7. Dare to Forgive
    8. You mean I'm not lazy, stupid, or crazy.

    My sister currently has a 6 month waiting list, for counselling.
    Her web site will be a few years away from being online, please watch for it.
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    RESOURCE I FOUND (it looks good):

    http://community.scholarschoice.ca/teacher/focused-approach-an-expert-explanation-of-adhd-in-the-classroom

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    THERE IS AN APP TO HELP:
    "Live OCD Free"

    Good Luck!


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  7. these are some awesome resources hun and the post was literally bringing me to tears that in the last year of my 20's I realised I have had ADHD since childhood and have struggled with GAD for the past decade. I am truly so grateful to feel so supported in this and honestly SOOO SADDD to use drugs (I've seen children on some meds and it is not a long-term solution by any means). < - my opinion, feel free to discuss

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